Khadija Tul Kubra (RA), also known as Khadija bint Khuwaylid, was among the most honored women in Islamic history. She was the first believer in Islam and the first wife of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH). Born into a noble family of the Quraysh tribe in Makkah, she was admired for her honesty, purity, and wisdom
Before Islam, people called her Al-Tahira (the Pure One) for her spotless character. She was a successful businesswoman who managed large trade caravans and employed many, including the young Muhammad (PBUH).
Her intelligence and integrity made her a leader in a society that rarely gave women respect or power. Even today, Muslims around the world remember Hazrat Khadija (RA) as a symbol of dignity, strength, and faith.
Marriage of Hazrat Khadijah (RA) with Prophet Muhammad (SAW)
The Prophet Muhammad SAW and Hazrat Khadija’s marriage remains one of the most beautiful examples of respect and partnership in history. When she witnessed his honesty and noble character, she proposed marriage to him.
Despite being 15 years older than him, their marriage was filled with mutual love, peace, and understanding, proving that age differences never define true companionship.
Their home became a sanctuary of peace and faith. Together, they raised children, including Hazrat Fatimah (RA), who later became one of the greatest women in Islam.
Khadija Tul Kubra (RA): The First Believer
When revelation first came to Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) in the Cave of Hira, he returned home trembling. At that moment, Khadija Tul Kubra (RA) comforted him, assured him, and became the first person to accept Islam.
She said:
“Never! By Allah, Allah will never disgrace you. You keep good relations with your kin, help the poor, serve your guests generously, and assist those in need.”
(Sahih al-Bukhari 4953)
Her faith never wavered. She stood beside the Prophet (PBUH) when the world turned against him. Her wealth and home were devoted to spreading Islam. Her unwavering belief made her not just a supportive wife but a true supporter of Islam.
Lessons from the Life of Hazrat Khadija (RA)
- Khadija (RA) believed in the message of Islam when no one else did. Her trust in Allah reminds us that faith requires courage, especially when standing alone.
- She was the Prophet’s comfort in moments of fear and sadness. Her love teaches that the best form of support is to help others move closer to Allah, not away from Him.
- As one of Makkah’s wealthiest women, she spent all she had for Islam. Her generosity teaches that real success is measured not by how much we keep, but by how much we give for Allah’s cause.
- She was calm in trials, patient during the boycott, and always trusted Allah’s plan. Her quiet strength changed the course of Islamic history.
- She proved that a woman can be successful in business, wise in leadership, devoted to family, and deeply connected to Allah, all at once!
- Her integrity, courage, and support for the truth make her a timeless role model. For women today, she’s a reminder that true empowerment lies in faith, service, and sincerity.
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Her Honour in the Sight of Allah
Once, Angel Jibril (AS) came to the Prophet (PBUH) with a divine message:
“O Messenger of Allah! Convey to Khadija (RA) greetings from her Lord and from me, and give her glad tidings of a palace in Paradise made of pearls, where there will be no noise or hardship.”
(Sahih Muslim, 2432)
Imagine, greetings from Allah Himself! Such was her status in the sights of her Creator.
Khadijah (RA), one of the 4 Greatest Women of the World & Paradise
The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said:
“The best women of the world are four: Maryam bint ‘Imran, Asiyah the wife of Pharaoh, Khadijah bint Khuwaylid, and Fatimah bint Muhammad.”
Musnad Ahmad (No. 2663) Sunan at-Tirmidhi (No. 3878)
Hazrat Khadija’s Legacy and Death
Hazrat Khadija (RA) lived about 65 years and passed away three years before the Hijrah. Her death deeply saddened the Prophet (PBUH); that year is remembered as “The Year of Sorrow.”
Even years later, the Prophet (PBUH) would remember her with tears, saying:
“She believed in me when people disbelieved, trusted me when others doubted, and supported me when no one else did.”
(Sahih al-Bukhari)
Khadija Tul Kubra (RA), the first wife of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH), remains an example set for men and women alike. Her strength, wisdom, and unwavering faith shaped the foundation of Islam.
Her story is not just about love, it’s about iman (faith), ikhlas (sincerity), and sacrifice for Allah. May we follow her example and find strength in her legacy.
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